Positive opinion of yourself

I had to use the following  to remove a woman from my orbit because she deludedly thought I was interested in her. Yeah, I probably hurt her fee-fees.

 "Get to the place where you don't give a rip what anybody else thinks.
 Reach the place where you never feel the need to tell a lie to anyone,
 in order to try to preserve their positive opinion of you because their
 positive opinion of you is worthless of you is worthless to you.

The only thing that matters to you is your own ALIGNMENT with who you are." 

 ~Abraham Hicks