This kinda falls under the Buddhist teaching: Desire is the underlying cause of dissatisfaction. When I was in Bhutan, the country measures Gross National Happiness and is part of their countries makeup.
For us stroke survivors, desire to get fully recovered can only lead to dissatisfaction. Since there is NOTHING in the stroke medical world that even remotely will get you there!
Overthinking Happiness Can Lower Life Satisfaction
Summary: Obsessing over personal happiness can actually decrease life satisfaction, according to new research. In three studies involving over 1,800 participants, individuals who judged their own happiness reported lower well-being, increased negativity, and more disappointment in positive events.
While the pursuit of happiness itself was not harmful, constant self-judgment about happiness levels was linked to greater depressive symptoms. The findings suggest embracing emotions with acceptance, rather than constantly evaluating happiness, may enhance well-being.Key Facts:
- Impact on Well-being: People who constantly evaluate their happiness tend to experience lower life satisfaction and greater depressive symptoms.
- Negativity About Positivity: Participants who focused on judging their happiness felt more negative about positive events.
- Acceptance Over Judgment: Accepting emotions, rather than judging them, may lead to better psychological well-being.
Source: APA
Judging
how happy you are could backfire and negatively impact life
satisfaction and psychological well-being, according to research
published by the American Psychological Association.
In
three experiments comprising more than 1,800 participants, researchers
found that having concerns or judgments about one’s own level of
happiness were associated with lower well-being, due in part to greater
negativity and disappointment about positive events.
The research was published in the journal Emotion.
Thinking too much about one’s own level of happiness could be related to fears about not measuring up or not being as happy as other people, said lead researcher Felicia Zerwas, PhD, who was a doctoral student at the University of California-Berkeley during this research and is now a postdoctoral researcher at New York University.
“There are plenty of societal pressures, at least within the United States, which encourage the fallacy that people must feel happy all of the time to achieve greater well-being,” she said.
“Overall, allowing yourself to experience your emotions, whether they are positive or negative, with an accepting attitude could be a useful tool for pursuing happiness and increasing well-being.”
Contrary to some previous studies, the current research found that the pursuit of happiness, or viewing happiness as a very important goal, didn’t have any detrimental impacts on well-being.
However, judging
one’s own level of happiness did. The research included various samples
of participants, including Yale University students, community members
from Denver and Berkeley, California, and online studies with
participants from the United States and Canada.
The participants
answered questions about their beliefs about happiness, as well as their
psychological well-being and depressive symptoms.
Being concerned about one’s own happiness was associated with lower overall life satisfaction and psychological well-being, as well as greater depressive symptoms.
The research also found that having concerns about one’s own happiness was associated with greater negativity about positive events.
“Having high expectations for one’s happiness can be detrimental because it makes it more difficult to achieve the level of happiness that we are expecting from a positive event,” Zerwas said.
About this happiness and psychology research news
Author: James Sliwa
Source: APA
Contact: James Sliwa – APA
Image: The image is credited to Neuroscience News
Original Research: Closed access.
“Unpacking
the Pursuit of Happiness: Being Concerned About Happiness but Not
Aspiring to Happiness Is Linked With Negative Meta-Emotions and Worse
Well-Being” by Felicia Zerwas et al. Emotion
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