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6 things you’ve been told about healthy aging that aren’t actually true, according to doctors
Key Takeaways
- Aging doesn’t have to mean less sleep, less strength, or fewer friends. Older adults still need seven to nine hours of sleep, strength training can slow muscle decline, and building social activities into your routine can help protect against loneliness.
- There’s no magic food or pill for longevity. No single superfood determines how well you age, and supplements are best used selectively when there’s a specific need, ideally after talking with your doctor.
- Experts say prioritizing sleep, eating a varied diet, and moving your body regularly has the greatest impact.
Contrary to popular belief, living a longer, healthier life doesn’t require an elaborate wellness routine or giving up life’s everyday pleasures and little indulgences. Here, experts debunk common aging myths, plus practical ways to support your health as you get older.
Myth: Older Adults Can Get by on Less Sleep
“Don’t assume that because you’re getting older, you’ll have problems with sleeping,” says Tracy Lippard, MD, geriatrician at Kaiser Permanente in Colorado, noting that the misconception may stem from changes in sleep patterns as we age, partly due to declining melatonin levels. “It takes us longer to fall asleep, sleep is more fragmented, and our sleeping schedule usually shifts to earlier bedtimes and earlier mornings.”
But older adults still need seven to nine hours of sleep each night. “It’s essential for memory consolidation and clearing away toxins that can harm the brain,” Dr. Lippard says. “Getting enough sleep also reduces the chances of developing depression and anxiety.” Adequate sleep may even help lower the risk of diabetes, hypertension, obesity, and heart problems, she adds.
If you’re having sleep troubles, Dr. Lippard suggests talking with your doctor, as this might be caused by medications, or conditions such as sleep apnea or restless legs syndrome.
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Myth: Getting Older Means Getting Weaker
“Muscle mass and strength tend to peak in our 30s and gradually decline from there, but that trajectory isn’t set in stone,” says Robert ‘Neal’ Mills, MD, MBA, chief medical officer at EHE Health. “How active you are, what you eat, your overall health, and other individual factors can all influence how much muscle you maintain as you age.”
Getting enough protein is particularly important for maintaining muscle as you get older, and while you can’t control every factor that affects muscle health, you can take steps to help preserve your strength through everyday lifestyle choices.
“Prioritize strength training,” Dr. Mills says. Bodyweight movements and exercises using free weights, such as squats, shoulder presses, and bicep curls, can all help build and maintain strength. “Staying active can substantially slow age-related declines in strength and function, and resistance training is one of the most effective tools we have for maintaining muscle as we age,” Dr. Mills says. “Start where you are and start small. The goal is to challenge your muscles consistently and build from there, at a level that’s appropriate for your health and ability.”
Myth: Inflammation Is the Enemy of Healthy Aging
“Inflammation has developed a bad reputation in the wellness world, but it’s one of the body’s essential defense and repair mechanisms,” says Jill Villa, physician associate and founder of Goldhaus Wellness. “When you cut your finger, develop an infection, or strain a muscle, your immune system activates an inflammatory response to protect the affected area, fight pathogens, clear damaged tissue and begin the healing process.”
Unlike acute inflammation, chronic, low-grade inflammation can linger without obvious symptoms. “You may not necessarily feel anything, but that ongoing inflammatory activity can contribute to long-term health problems,” Villa says. “Things like chronic stress, poor sleep, smoking, excess visceral fat, and metabolic dysfunction can all play a role.” Over time, persistent inflammation has been associated with health conditions such as cardiovascular disease and type 2 diabetes.
Villa says the goal isn’t to eliminate inflammation, but to support a healthy response, and she recommends moving your body regularly and prioritizing sleep. “It doesn’t have to be complicated. Walk more, incorporate strength training, and try not to spend hours at a time sitting,” she says. “Sleep is really when the body gets the opportunity to repair and recover, so consistency matters.”
Myth: Getting Older Means Losing Your Social Circle
“Loneliness is very common,” Dr. Lippard says, pointing to a 2023 national poll in the United States that found 37% of adults aged 50 to 80 reported feeling lonely. “As people get older, their social circle may get smaller for lots of reasons, such as retirement [or] the death of a spouse or friends.”
Loneliness can also increase the risk of depression, anxiety, and cognitive impairment, Dr. Lippard says. “However, older adults may have a few treasured relationships that they safeguard, and this can protect them from being lonely.”
Dr. Lippard recommends making socializing part of your routine. “Maybe it’s coffee once a week with the same friend or two, a regular yoga class, or a Saturday morning volunteer shift at the animal shelter,” she says. “It makes it easier to nourish relationships when social activities are built into the fabric of your life.”
Myth: You Need Superfoods to Live Longer
Superfoods like blueberries, salmon, and turmeric have all earned a reputation for their health benefits, but as Villa explains, “No single food is going to determine how well you age.” Instead, their benefits occur within the context of an overall healthy lifestyle.
Eating the same handful of ingredients every day can mean missing out on important nutrients, Villa says. “Different foods provide different vitamins, minerals, fibers, and polyphenols, all of which contribute to overall health.”
Rather than focusing on individual superfoods, Villa recommends building balanced meals around whole, minimally processed foods while still making room for the things you enjoy. “Start with a lean, high-quality protein source, add plenty of vegetables or lower-glycemic fruits, incorporate healthy fats like avocado, olive oil, and nuts, and choose carbohydrates that are high-fiber like beans, lentils, quinoa, oats, and sweet potatoes,” she says. “A healthy diet is one that supports your health and that you can realistically maintain for years.”
Myth: You Need Supplements to Live Longer
“One of the biggest misconceptions is that taking more supplements automatically means better health,” Dr. Mills says. “Supplements can be useful when there’s a specific need, but they aren’t a substitute for healthy eating.”
Though older adults may be more likely to fall short on nutrients such as calcium and vitamin D, individual needs vary. “Food should do most of the heavy lifting, with supplements used selectively when there’s a reason for them,” he says, suggesting a varied diet rich in fruits and vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats, and quality protein sources.
Before adding supplements to your routine, talk with your physician about your diet, health history, medications, and whether any testing might be appropriate.
The Bottom Line
When it comes to living a longer, healthier life, Villa says the most effective approach often comes down to getting the basics right: prioritizing sleep, eating well, and moving your body regularly. “You don’t have to do everything perfectly or follow an elaborate wellness routine,” she says. “It’s what you do consistently, day after day and year after year, that ultimately has the greatest impact on how well you age.”
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